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Pet Peeve Thread
27 June 2021, 12:38 AM
BeeLadyPet Peeve Thread
This photo...
What the heck is she thinking? Was this appropriate for a White House event? A jacket would have made this so much better.
I love Kamala, in a suit, equal with the men but a bit of heel to show her feminine side.
But this? I would NEVER wear something like this to work.

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27 June 2021, 08:18 AM
piquéI have an infinite supply of pet peeves. This isn't one of them. Why not let people express themselves with their clothes at work? The suit is boring and stultifying.
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27 June 2021, 10:04 AM
ShiroKuroOn the one hand, I totally agree with piqué.
On the other hand, I'm really tired of the standard being that women's clothes are *always* designed to show a lot of skin, while men's clothes show almost nothing.
27 June 2021, 10:17 AM
CindysphinxA senator should wear conservative clothes to the White House. The men should not show up wearing dockers and a polo shirt, either.
I rarely wear suits because suits for women with butts are hard to find. I wear dresses, but always with a jacket on top for court — even on Zoom.
27 June 2021, 11:59 AM
QuirtEvansI think I may have worn a suit the last time I was in the office, which was January 2020. I don't even wear a long-sleeve shirt for Zoom calls ... just a polo shirt.
27 June 2021, 12:02 PM
piquéI've never worked in a place that required sober clothes. Art galleries, design studios, magazines, and newsrooms (reporters are notoriously badly dressed). I feel badly for people who have to dress like this every day. It would feel like being in shackles to me.
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27 June 2021, 02:26 PM
Amandaquote:
Originally posted by piqué:
I've never worked in a place that required sober clothes. Art galleries, design studios, magazines, and newsrooms (reporters are notoriously badly dressed). I feel badly for people who have to dress like this every day. It would feel like being in shackles to me.
As far as I hear from Bay Area son, suits, ties, etc. are completely extinct on the West Coast - to the point of being seen as ridiculous. (Not sure what women wear to work.).
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27 June 2021, 02:47 PM
Steve MillerLawyers still wear them, but only on days they have to be in court.
OTOH they have stopped wearing powdered wigs, so there is that.
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27 June 2021, 03:49 PM
Amandaquote:
Originally posted by Steve Miller:
Lawyers still wear them, but only on days they have to be in court.
OTOH they have stopped wearing powdered wigs, so there is that.

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The most dangerous word in the language is "obvious"
27 June 2021, 03:52 PM
AmandaBack to pet peeves, there are certain words I've grown allergic to.
For starters: robust and agile
(ugh)
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The most dangerous word in the language is "obvious"
27 June 2021, 05:20 PM
Piano*DadSpeaking of writing:
I get cross when my students, and reporters, use all sorts of hyperbole words that convey vague emotional content ... drastic, skyrocket ... when clarity and precision escapes them.
I get cross when people use cliches. Orwell hated that too. So does Bret Stephens in a NY Times piece called "Tips for Aspiring Op-Ed Writers" ...
quote:
Kill the clichés. If you want to give the reader an outside the box perspective on how to solve a problem from hell by reimagining the policy toolbox to include stakeholder voices — well, stop right there. Editors notice these sorts of expressions the way French chefs notice slices of Velveeta cheese: repulsive in themselves, and indicative of the mental slop that lies beneath.
And weasel words ... indeed, apparently, in truth, ...
27 June 2021, 08:24 PM
CHASUse of then for than, bring for take
(will leave this open for when I remember other things.
Wore a tie to a funeral years ago in the county where I live. Was ordered to take it off.
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28 June 2021, 01:53 PM
Jack Frost“Her and me are going to the store.”
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28 June 2021, 01:57 PM
pianojugglerquote:
Originally posted by Jack Frost:
“Her and me are going to the store.”
Jf
Overcorrecting on that:
“Please contact Ralph and I.”
Urg.
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28 June 2021, 02:31 PM
jodi“Nucular”
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