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01 May 2019, 10:49 PM
BeeLady
I'm Transitioning, Ya'll!
I have a Jamaican coworker who had straightened her hair. She had a serious health scare almost 2 years ago and immediately chopped off all her damaged hair.

We all love it!..It is so much more feminine, easy for her and she is rockin' it. Now and then she tints the tips..sometimes a blond, sometimes red...It looks great!

No matter the race, straight or curly, I prefer natural hair.

From one who refuses to color her hair..I earned every gray hair I have. Smiler

quote:
Originally posted by Cindysphinx:
Nina, I think you coined a new term: hair splaining! Smiler

Yeah, there are plenty of natural hair specialists out here. I ditched my old stylist. I'm sure she could handle natural hair, but she was super far away, and there are plenty of places closer to me.

Tonight I might try a roller set, but there are obstacles. I exercise in the morning, so how is that going to work? Wake up, style hair, run around for an hour?

I really need to suck it up and cut it completely off. Like this:


That would take real guts, though . . .


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01 May 2019, 11:30 PM
Daniel
I don't know why men have comb overs let alone hair plugs. Yikes.
01 May 2019, 11:39 PM
Cindysphinx
quote:
Originally posted by ShiroKuro:
OMG I just googled "hair transplant plug" -- yikes!! (the things you learn on WTF...)

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So when I think of any sort of cosmetic, erm, improvements, I think about the people who get a poor result and have to live with it the rest of their lives.


Yeah, that would concern me as well.

Re your daughter, wow! I think sometimes just the younger you are, the more fearless you are. I got contacts at age 29 because I didn't want to have glasses on at my wedding, and I thought I would like contacts and would just switch over. But I *hated* them and could never get used to them. Also, at the time my prescription wouldn't allow me to get disposables, and I thought the care of the contacts was the biggest PITA imaginable. As I said, I gave up on them after 6 months. But my wedding photos were nice.

/threaddrift


If you were interested, you might give them another try.

I have astigmatism so I have to have a special weighted contact lenses. Also, there are many brands that I cannot wear. So nowadays they give you trial pairs of several different brands in your prescription and you take them home and decide if any of them work. One interesting thing is that I cannot wear daily contact lenses. My eyes immediately get dry and I am miserable. I half I have to wear monthly lenses. The main value for me is sports.
02 May 2019, 11:20 AM
Nanna
My eyesight has been terrible since 5th grade. Started hard contacts lens in high school many years ago. In the 90’s got lasix done. Freedom! Only problem was I had it done with mono vision (one eye to see close and one eye to see far). Great in general, but terrible for tennis! I would see the ball clearly leave the racket of my opponent and suddenly arrive clearly in my court. Back to contacts for tennis!
03 May 2019, 06:49 AM
dolmansaxlil
quote:
Originally posted by Cindysphinx:
quote:
Originally posted by ShiroKuro:
OMG I just googled "hair transplant plug" -- yikes!! (the things you learn on WTF...)

quote:
So when I think of any sort of cosmetic, erm, improvements, I think about the people who get a poor result and have to live with it the rest of their lives.


Yeah, that would concern me as well.

Re your daughter, wow! I think sometimes just the younger you are, the more fearless you are. I got contacts at age 29 because I didn't want to have glasses on at my wedding, and I thought I would like contacts and would just switch over. But I *hated* them and could never get used to them. Also, at the time my prescription wouldn't allow me to get disposables, and I thought the care of the contacts was the biggest PITA imaginable. As I said, I gave up on them after 6 months. But my wedding photos were nice.

/threaddrift


If you were interested, you might give them another try.

I have astigmatism so I have to have a special weighted contact lenses. Also, there are many brands that I cannot wear. So nowadays they give you trial pairs of several different brands in your prescription and you take them home and decide if any of them work. One interesting thing is that I cannot wear daily contact lenses. My eyes immediately get dry and I am miserable. I half I have to wear monthly lenses. The main value for me is sports.


Exactly the same scenario here! I never got over the feeling of having something in my eye. They made me miserable. I also wore them for about 6 months around my (first) wedding and then never again.


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04 May 2019, 12:15 AM
rustyfingers
Good for you, Cindy. You’ll look great!

I’m going the other way, actually—I never colored my hair until a few years ago, and now I have to do the maintenance...much more fuss than I’ve ever done before. I even started curling it. Go figure. Mine is straight and long so if I curl it it’s straight again within a few hours.


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14 May 2019, 10:07 AM
Cindysphinx
Well, I did it!

I reached the point where I hated how my hair looked while I grew it out way more than I hated the uncertainty of how I would feel if I cut it off.

Oldest Sphinx and Middle Sphinx (who drove up from North Carolina) decided we should make a day of it. First, brunch with Mimosas. Here we are on our way.

Brunch



So after having no chemical straightening for 5.5 months, and after doing some research to find someone who does natural black hair, and after checking Yelp reviews, I did it. I cut off all of my straightened hair (something known as the "Big Chop").

https://drive.google.com/open?...X2lwLXZkVDVwLVhLNFh3


The earrings are my Mother's Day gift from the girls.
14 May 2019, 10:57 AM
josh
Gorgeous!
14 May 2019, 11:04 AM
ShiroKuro
happydance happydance happydance

You look fantastic and the cut really suits you!!!

Also, Congratulations!! I know that was a big step!


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14 May 2019, 11:15 AM
Axtremus
The result is good, congratulations! ThumbsUp ThumbsUp


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14 May 2019, 11:28 AM
Nina
You look fantastic! What a great decision.

BTW, your daughters are gorgeous. (Not news to you, I know, but....)

Mimosas pre big chop = sheer (shear) genius
14 May 2019, 11:30 AM
Mary Anna
You look amazing!

You're very brave and it paid off.

And also, no wonder your girls are so gorgeous. I love the picture of the three of you together.


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14 May 2019, 11:42 AM
Bernard
Wow! Don't you look fabulous!


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14 May 2019, 11:57 AM
Mikhailoh
I think it looks great.


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14 May 2019, 12:17 PM
AdagioM
Wonderful! A big step, and so worth it!

(Hair is a big deal to me. I’m afraid to chop it off.)


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