“One aspect of the COVID-19 pandemic that has been particularly difficult is that instead of our usual promise that ‘We’ll do everything we can to keep him alive until you get here,’ we find ourselves telling families, ‘Because of hospital policy, we cannot allow visitors at this time,’” writes a group of surgical residents.
The Michigan Medicine surgeons-in-training are seeing, at the various hospitals they work in, what they call an “ethical and health care dilemma” that needs to be discussed: patients dying alone during the COVID-19 pandemic. Their loved ones aren’t always able to visit, and providers may not always be able to facilitate long video chat sessions or other virtual communication with loved ones.
The residents shared their perspective in a new piece in the New England Journal of Medicine.
“Dying alone and not being able to see your family members is something that runs to the direct antithesis of what we try to do in our roles, so this COVID pandemic shook us to our core in an unanticipated way,” says lead author Glenn Wakam, M.D.
The motivating factor for bringing this up, corresponding author Craig Brown, M.D., says, is that because the care for COVID-19 patients is new for everyone, there’s a need to think about the best way to handle these incredibly difficult moments that patients and families are experiencing.
This is one of the more heartbreaking details of covid.
It is also one of the details that fuels a lot of my worse fears. Like, if my mother were in the hospital and we couldn't see her. Or if Mr. SK were in the hospital, who would translate for him? In both cases, in addition to the emotional toll (for all parties) I would be worried about who would be their advocates.
