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Just part of living in the city?

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23 March 2020, 05:07 PM
rontuner
Just part of living in the city?
Or a sign of what may be coming?

I'll start off by reminding you that about a year ago, MrsTuner and I went through a significant downsize from a large house in the suburbs to a rental condo in an old converted office building near the downtown area of Chicago. Both semi-retired, we've really come to enjoy city living with so many fun things to do nearby!

When we first moved, I was worried about random crime walking around. We make it a habit to be done being out-and-about by around 7-8pm, and I felt comforted by the number of people walking in the neighborhood - lots of businesses and colleges nearby translated to tons of foot traffic. Over the year, we got comfortable at taking trains and walking and usually went with our guts to turn or avoid anything that might look fishy.

We are still getting out for long walks, but have noticed that only other walkers and those that are taking their dogs out seem to be in the neighborhood...

Yesterday I was coming back from a solo walk and got jumped from behind about a block from our place where the sidewalk crosses under some train tracks. I had seen a few kids yelling at each other a half-block away but just headed towards home. Surreal is the best way to describe it - Three or four young kids, one jumped up on my back - didn't hear him coming at all. (I wondered who was playing around, this isn't social distancing!) and another tripped me and they all began punching my head.... Hmm, this feels more serious than playing around, so I yelled for help and worked to get up off the ground. Luckily, there was someone that shouted at them to get off as one was flipping my wallet out of my back pocket. (I hadn't even thought of a robbery at that point...) The wallet fell to the ground as he turned to run off. My glasses and wallet survived intact. I only took a few good hits - they must've had gloves on and not been swinging too hard because I came through without any real visible damage. Worse part (in addition to feeling like I should've somehow been able to do more) was re-injuring an old shoulder injury. My right arm will have limited mobility for a while.

So, just run-of-the-mill city mayhem with kids wandering around without school, or a sign of what may be coming as more people and families are placed in dire circumstances?

I guess I better start walking with some pepper spray out and try to be more observant. Also, now I have a "walking wallet" for the city even once this is over which will only have one credit card and a transit card. Easily stopped and replaced.

Wondering about the future... sigh.


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23 March 2020, 05:17 PM
wtg
Wow, ron. Sorry to hear that happened to you.

I've been hearing a lot about things like that occurring all over our fair city, all pre-coronavirus. Phone thefts and carjackings are pretty routine, with gangs of young people roaming around and causing all kinds of mayhem. The fact that you were alone certainly didn't help.

It certainly could get worse with the added pressure that the pandemic brings.

Stay safe.


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23 March 2020, 05:24 PM
BeeLady
OMG! I am so sorry you had this happen!

I moved to the city as well, and while I live in a more suburban type area, I often walk in other areas of town..But I never worry about being jumped...Most crime here is property or against folks known to each other.

I am happy to hear you are ok physically....Hoping you can recover from this in other ways.. Frowner


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23 March 2020, 05:29 PM
jodi
OMG. That’s just awful - how frightening! I am so sorry your shoulder was re-injured and really glad you were not seriously hurt.

Hope your shoulder heals fast!


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23 March 2020, 05:44 PM
ShiroKuro
OMG Ron, I am so, so sorry to hear this! And I'm sorry that your shoulder was injured. Did you get medical attention? Or have a phone consultation?

Do you know the signs to look for for concussion?
Here's a list from the Mayo Clinic:
Headache.
Ringing in the ears.
Nausea.
Vomiting.
Fatigue or drowsiness.
Blurry vision.
https://www.mayoclinic.org/dis...-causes/syc-20355594

You might also have Mrs. Ron look at your pupils and make sure they are the same size...
https://www.cdc.gov/traumaticb...injury/symptoms.html

(Sorry, this might seem like overkill, but I had a concussion where the symptoms didn't really appear until the next day, and I ended up with post-concussion syndrome, so I believe you can never be too careful.)

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23 March 2020, 05:58 PM
rontuner
Thanks all - I've actually taken much bigger hits on the basketball and volleyball courts, or goofing around when I was younger...

I have a partial tear in one of my rotator cuffs, so this isn't particularly new.

I let the local police know so they can monitor hot-spots as they develop. We actually have a pretty large police show of force in our neighborhood...


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23 March 2020, 06:11 PM
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23 March 2020, 06:17 PM
LL
WHOA...

Glad that someone was nearby to lend a hand...or yell.

I can't imagine the shock and glad that you are ok.

You mention pepper spray. How would that have helped? They ganged up on you and knocked you down quite fast...???

I live where it feels quite safe but can't run (knee) and getting on in years. Can't imagine.

Hope your wife won't be walking alone...


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23 March 2020, 08:31 PM
CHAS
That is scary.
Hope the shoulder is better soon.

My father once threw cash out his door go get people to leave. They were outside of town.


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23 March 2020, 08:49 PM
rontuner
How would pepper spray help? Wouldn't have helped that afternoon, but I turned my back on a potential problem brewing... my bad.


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23 March 2020, 09:06 PM
AdagioM
I am so sorry this happened to you. That’s terrible.

I’m guessing we should all be more vigilant.


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23 March 2020, 10:56 PM
markj
OMG Ron! I am so sorry that you went through this horrific event! Like you need something else to add pain and anxiety at this time in history.

What will the city/state/fed do if roving gangs of thugs start to be the norm all over?

Been putting this off for a long time. I need to go clean my guns and load some additional ammo.

Think I will order a shotgun as well.
23 March 2020, 11:30 PM
rontuner
Thanks all for being here. Of course, I told MrsTuner right away, but you are the first outside of her. I just felt I should tell my story to help 'let it go'...

Working on healing now. I may go try to tune a piano at the University to see how my shoulder handles it.


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24 March 2020, 12:06 AM
RealPlayer
So sorry this happened to you. Ron. Hope you are pretty unscathed. It’s something I worry about too though never had an incident in 35 years.


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24 March 2020, 01:57 AM
Steve Miller
I propose a renewed interest in baseball. Never leave home without a bat.

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