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08 May 2024, 06:48 PM
Mary Anna
My health news (not great)
I agree with everybody else who wants you to be checked out medically, but I don't discount the possibility of your home situation being a factor.

During my divorce, it was like my body was melting away. I lost twenty-five pounds quickly without trying. It got to the point where people who knew me well were asking if I was okay. The more irksome thing was that my doctor didn't even ask if I'd been trying to lose weight. She just presumed I was happy about it, despite the fact that I had been well within a normal-to-thin weight range before.

Go get checked out and let us know how you're doing. Emotions are powerful things.


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08 May 2024, 08:28 PM
AdagioM
Sorry you’re not feeling well, Daniel. I agree with others: get checked out. I hope it’s just stress, which can be dealt with. Still hard, though.


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09 May 2024, 01:22 PM
jodi
I’m with the others - glad you are getting it checked out, but in the past, extreme stress and depression due to relationship troubles made me completely lose my appetite and lose a bunch of weight. Hope that’s the reason, and you can just focus on your mental health. Take care, Daniel! ♥️


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09 May 2024, 04:49 PM
Daniel
Thanks, everyone!

I don't want to sound ingenious but your moral support and advice mean a lot to me. ❤️

I've lost .5 lbs since starting this thread. I have food. I just don't want eat. I'm having trouble sleeping and when I do sleep just don't want to get out of bed.

RM's mother took me to the store yesterday. I told her (this was when I was on the verge of panic, RM called her, then asked me if I was ready to go, and I had a minute to get ready) I thought I was starving. She said, "Who's fault is that?," and the conversation went downhill from there.

She said she knew she was making a mistake when she took her name off our home and put mine on it. She said, "That was for (her son's name here). It wasn't for you."

But she did it, and her son didn't have a legal or moral right to demand I leave. He did this a year ago.

I took his name off because he was going to do the same and then evict me.

I put his name on again as a joint owner (not a co-owner).

This 'proved' to him and his mother I was a bad person (I don't know how else to say it-- he's called me "evil" and every name in the book).

The fact he started this drama is nothing he or his mother seems capable of or willing to consider.

It's challenging.

So, I might have to force myself to eat soon. Lol.
09 May 2024, 09:28 PM
CHAS
I prescribe ice cream and chocolate. Spoil yourself.
Hope a silver lining to all this appears soon.


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09 May 2024, 10:12 PM
Cindysphinx
I’m sorry you’re going through this, Daniel. We’re all very fond of you.
10 May 2024, 03:36 AM
Daniel
Thank you, Chas and Cindy. Smiler